The following was sent by a Baltimore Scoop follower

As someone who grew up in Baltimore, raising money for our schools was a rite of passage. Many of us have fond memories of walking around the neighborhood collecting “boosters” from family, friends, and neighbors. We stood outside places like 7 Mile Market and other local establishments, politely asking for support. It’s something that still goes on today, and it brings back a lot of nostalgia.

That said, I’ve noticed a change over the years that I think deserves attention.

When we collected, we stood outside. Today, it’s becoming increasingly common for boys to stand directly inside store entrances, stopping people as they try to enter and leave. At times, shoppers are effectively blocked from exiting, creating congestion and frustration for everyone. This past Erev Shabbos, I even saw boys walking through the store itself, stopping shoppers to ask for donations.

I generally don’t mind seeing young boys collecting for schools and tzedakah organizations. It’s part of our community culture. But there has to be a line. Standing outside and asking respectfully is one thing. Approaching shoppers inside a store while they’re trying to shop is another.

Parents and organizers should have conversations with their children about socially appropriate ways to collect, including where and how to approach people respectfully.

And, with all due respect, Erev Shabbos is probably not the ideal time to stop people in 7 Mile Market and ask them for money while they’re trying to finish their shopping.